Why Men Get Used
Every relationship is transactional. I’ve said it, Stripper said it, and probably half the manosphere has now adopted that maxim. The only difference between high-value and low-value men is the currency they’re operating in.
A beta needs to invest, while an alpha needs to exist, and people don’t like that because they want either the same outcome as Chad for free or this knowledge not to be out there.
Remember, women don’t like unflattering truths about them to become common knowledge. But with the internet, women’s sexual strategy has been all over social media. It’s not the Call Her Daddy podcast alone that’s a great display of open hypergamy; it’s every woman with a TikTok account embarrassing her husband and pining over a previous lover. Or a female politician putting in the next legislation guaranteeing beta provisioning being provided by the state.
Many men bring out their pitchforks and burning torches to shame these harlots for daring to behave in this manner. Yet the manosphere has been well aware of this, and instead of shaming women, who won’t listen to any man they’re not sleeping with, we’ve informed men about women’s mating strategy and suggested they apply it to their own sensibilities.
So be the man she wants to marry, we tend to suggest, and whose kids she wants, not the man she uses to be married and obtain children with to check off her list and brag about it to her friends on social media. Knowing there’s a difference already puts you miles ahead of the average man. Now you need to know how to spot the difference.
Roissy has pointed out in the past that women marry out of fear of being alone, and so far he’s not been proven wrong, seeing how many sexless marriages are still out there. The same goes for mothers having kids for the sake of checking off a list instead of wanting to carry on the man’s name. Or recently married women embarrassing their husbands online when the truth about their exploits before the wedding comes out.
But how do you know the difference?
