Standing on the shoulders of giants
Men have always wanted to get laid.
The red pill is nothing new. Men, since the dawn of time, have wanted to do two things: fight and fuck. Ever since it became abundantly clear to men that women choose their mates, they have wanted to figure out how to become their object of desire.
It used to be through strength, resources, capability, protection, fun and safety. The modern woman, however, doesn’t need you to be the breadwinner. She can get bread in minutes with DoorDash or a walk to the local Subway. She can afford it too, thanks to the plethora of opportunities society has given women so they can provide for themselves.
Men have become obsolete; and if men hate one thing more than being useless, it’s being obsolete.
Obsolete men don’t fuck
Society has conditioned men to believe that their only value lies in sacrifice: sacrificing their time, their resources, and their lives in service of the feminine. Women need protection by default, so it convinced men to become conformists through blue pill conditioning. It weaponized men’s pragmatic reasoning and their innate urge to protect against them; and men went along with it - providing resources, protection and parental investment - all for the promise of regular sex with women who they desired, and who desired them.
It’s a covert contract that worked well enough for centuries. Even today, all the so-called Masculine Men will tell you that a Real Man is a provider. But now that technological progress has led to women leaving that Real Man in the dust for someone who’s fun and exciting, he faces a cold, hard truth: obsolete men don’t fuck.
Women will fuck you for many reasons. The main one, of course, is you being the right guy at the right place at the right time; others might be to piss off dad, to get back with her ex, to get back AT her ex, to one-up her girlfriend, and simply for clout (a brilliant book on this is “Why Women Have Sex” by Cindy Meston and Dr. David Buss). “Because he provides for me” isn’t one of those reasons.
But even the man who provides wants to fuck. And since providing is all you focused on to keep her happy, you decide to learn how to become attractive. You start:
Swapping notes
One day, a guy would type into Google or YouTube the question we’ve all asked ourselves: “why won’t she fuck me?”. A host of articles and videos would greet him, all condemning the misogynistic approach of men following the red pill philosophy. Yet the backstories of a lot of these evil, evil men would strike a chord with him:
This guy’s girlfriend used to get a headache whenever he wanted to have sex, but she wouldn’t see a doctor.
That guy’s wife used to make him do all the chores for a week in exchange for ONE handjob.
This other guy’s ex-girlfriend hopped on a 7 hour flight - while he was in the hospital - to spend a night with an influencer for business tips.
So he would dig deeper and type in “what is hypergamy?”
This used to be the roadmap to finding the Red Pill subreddit. Guys like Roissy, Roosh and Rollo swapping notes on pickup and dating, about what worked, what didn’t, and why. Nowadays there’s the infamous “Rich-Rollo-Rian” pipeline: you probably find Rich Cooper first, who leads you to Rollo Tomassi, who then leads you to Rian Stone.
The men I mentioned above? Those men used to mention names too; be it Mystery, Archwinger, HumanSockPuppet, Warren Farrell, Whisper, or Pook - who wrote the most entertaining explanations to date of what women found attractive, and how men could become that. The internet made it possible for men who fuck to talk to men who don’t and share how they did it. Author Z wouldn’t be here without author Y, but Y would have never been here without his experience - experience he wouldn’t have gained had he not read author X.
It started with men who shared notes. Bloggers compiled the notes into blog posts, which became books by authors, which became podcasts by hosts. And where authors and content creators are adding value, consumers are giving them value in return by supporting their work.
It doesn’t matter anymore where something started or who coined the term/phrase. When you know, you give credit where credit is due. When you don’t, you take a penny or leave a penny: you take the note and share your experience, tweak what needs tweaking, then pass it on to the next guy - if you want. Once you’ve internalized what you needed to, you’re meant to leave TRP.
It’s hard to be original in this space. 500 other guys here have probably had the same idea as you. But you don’t need to be original. The message - Rule Zero - doesn’t need to be original.
TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them.
So that’s what you do: you add your experience and use your words to describe what happened. Just how one guy’s words might’ve clicked for you, your words may click for someone else.
I’ve seen this multiple times as a personal trainer. I can tell you to split the floor during squats and you may think I’m insane, yet when someone else tells you to screw your feet into the floor, you get it. Or I can tell you to break the bar to get your lats engaged and you only twist your elbows, but when I tell you to put your shoulders down, you feel your lats and understand how to engage them.
The only difference is the phrasing. The outcome is the same.
It’s about you developing a strategy to get your desired outcome, all from reading a field report someone else posted. It’s not a brotherhood. “We” don’t do this for each other - you do it for yourself. If there’s a lesson in there for another man, that’s nice. But the goal is for the original poster to reflect on his own actions and put into words what he has learned.
If a guy saves himself from making a horrible mistake after reading your field report, that’s a bonus. The original purpose has not changed. You’ve simply started Owning Your Shit.
If he doesn’t though, he gets:
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